As I grow older my hobbies' become my obsessions , while spending time here in Cebu. I left a hobby become an obsession once and learned from my mistake. save. When it comes to their work environment ESTJs believe in getting things done to the best of their abilities. Think of it as an all or nothing approach to life. So I can see myself looking for something better built down the road. They are always pushing themselves to improve, and can become somewhat obsessed with being the absolute best. We all have hobbies and interests and – generally – a strong preference for routine. When does a hobby become an obsession!?! When does a hobby become an obsession? An obsession is "an idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes on a … This thread is archived. hide. I fine myself surfing eBay looking for great deals , I just happened to fine one, for shit's and giggles I bid on a 1978 iron head sportster. 9 comments. But when you find yourself feeling intense rage or remorse over failings in your hobby, it’s time to take a good hard look in the mirror. 0 0. kezia. 1 decade ago. Depends what lengths you went to to accumulate that gear. At first, like all addictions, obsession is intoxicating. You become angry when your hobby isn’t successful. Lv 5. To afford that I would have to … Yes actually. So, when does a hobby become an obsession? I would be better off investing in other areas first, but I have upgraded to BJC CAT 6a , Like you, I do believe in quality connections, like what you showed in your AQ cables. That’s not the same as saying you have OCD, not even close. My hobby of listening to music quickly became and obsession when I started working for a couple local concert security businesses. Everyone experiences disappointment and regret over bad decisions. Well there are many signs of a hobie becoming a obsession. The person ( or you, if it's who you're referring to) practices this hobie when there are other hobbies they preferr to and stopped it out of nowhere, for no perticular reason, and now are doing this new hobbie witch now has become a behavior, and what i mean by behavior is, you are doing it more than on a regular basis. and was nearly "spent" last night. 100% Upvoted. At what point does your hobby become an obsession? * obsessions may help people to relax and feel happy * people can get a lot of enjoyment from learning about a particular subject or gathering together items of interest. best. level 1. Hobbies are meant to improve your mood, not detract from it. Everyone has people who just don’t understand how they spend their time. We may become obsessed with a person, a place, a goal, a subject—but obsession amounts to the same thing in all cases: addiction. Could it be that you just have an obsessive personality? The main characteristic of an obsessive personality is they get bored easily. Anonymous. Is it an obsession or a hobby? Your Loved Ones Have Expressed Concern. report. Christmas gift had apparently bloomed on Christmas day (cool, eh?) just 70 miles away from my home in California , lo an behold I … 5 years ago. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. ESTJs are rarely interested in hobbies enough to become obsessed with them, and will find most things a bit boring. Petals are becoming translucent, etc. Sort by. Mitch, Thank you for the link.. Hobbies should add relaxation and joy to your life, not create stress when you have to pull yourself away. 9 months ago. share. Well, back from Calif in one piece and came home to mixed Hippi "news". kaboehm (zone 9a, TX USA) 11 years ago. Thread starter Hungry; Start date Jan 30, 2019; Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and … 5. 1 0.